In waiting

I knew it, even before I got to the coffee pot this morning. I felt it, even before I could put the nametag “homesick” on it. I found myself reciting lines of Christina Rossetti, Grace Knoll Croll, Erendis Nasard, the Psalmist. And they all sounded very mournful. “Oh, that I had wings of a dove…”

It followed me to work—this walking-the-edge-of-a-knife tension that signifies one of those days when you feel every moment, afraid that the atoms holding you together might give way before you can get home, and you will melt into a puddle of tears and random bits of matter at your feet (which will subsequently cease to be feet, since they will melt too), and feel that you are a Thing which has properly lost all of its Property-ness. And you know, in theory, that you are young and strong and happy and that only makes it worse because none of these facts have communicated themselves to your hands or feet or brain yet. In Girl, we say: chocolate and crying (no cure, but a treatment, at least). In Boy…I don’t speak Boy, but I have a feeling there is no equivalent.

But I reminded myself of a devotional I read recently, which included this sentence: “My desires become material for sacrifice.” I was thankful for this, because it meant that I have something concrete to offer up to God. Instead of just saying, in general, “Yes, Lord, I want to take up my cross and follow you, take my whole life,” I could say specifically, “Look, Lord—I have this pain; this love; this desire for a good thing: I put this on my altar, right now, specifically, because I want to be yours.” And so the pain becomes a reminder of my decision to follow Christ, of His purchase of my holiness, becomes something I have which I can give as an action of love; a reminder of joy.

I wrote Isaiah 40:31 on the board for my first lesson, and we talked our way through the various words. “Tell me what this makes you think of,” I said. “Are you ever tired?” Eliseo, my only young student for the class, shrugged. “I’m in waiting,” he said.

I tried to explain to him that we don’t say that in English. “This is very poetic, has the sense of waiting, expecting, depending on God, seeking His will,” I said. I looked later in the Italian, which says, “hope in.”

We then went on to talk about the use of “shall” as a promise (or a threat, but I don’t think so in this case). It reminded me of something I read, speaking of holding God to His promises. That’s faith, isn’t it? Taking God at His word.

Someone who felt things even more than I do, and who actually had reason to feel things, believed this: “This I call to mind, and therefore I have hope: the steadfast love of the Lord never ceases; his mercies never come to an end; they are new every morning; great is your faithfulness. ‘The Lord is my portion,’ says my soul, ‘therefore I will hope in Him.’ The Lord is good to those who wait for Him, to the soul who seeks Him. It is good that one should wait quietly for the salvation of the Lord.”

I did remember one way in which we use “in waiting” in English: when we consider something only a matter of time (do you know, I miss the word “expect” in Italian—it only has “wait,” which isn’t always the same), especially with royalty, or champions. “The princesses in waiting,” I saw once as a title for the girlfriends of the Royal Highnesses. I too, am expecting to be royal, but I don't have to anxiously await approval--I already have the promise.

Our citizenship is in heaven, from which we eagerly await a Savior, the Lord Jesus Christ, who will transform our lowly bodies to be like His glorious body, by the power that enables Him even to subject all things to Himself.

Lord, I will be quiet and wait—not tapping my toes, but firm in the knowledge that you have everything taken care of, knowing that I too will rise up with wings as eagles.

That special something...

For those of you who have ever thought of it as a light subject, it’s not. At least not when you live in Italy.

I don’t know about the rest of you, but in summer my style always tends toward minimalist, careless chic—as in, I don’t care what I wear, as long as it’s cool. I generally wear only basic makeup jewelry—who needs all that stuff on their skin, anyway?

But here, style continues into the summer. Probably around 90% of the women on the street now are wearing dresses—a cool, comfortable, fluttery option. And although many of them I wouldn’t wear myself, being a girl I don’t have so much of a personal problem with the lack of modesty some of them display, so I’ve mostly been enjoying the fashion show. But it’s very different from the American look-like-you’re-gorgeous-without-trying look. They definitely try, and know what they’re doing. I hand in my hat to them.

I went out to the park yesterday, it being my day off, and knew I was going there to read and tan. So I wore a sleeveless denim shirt over a tank top, shorts, and black sandals that are sort of like flip-flops, but not.

Out on the street, I had the feeling of one who has been caught in the main building during business hours when there is a reception going on wearing gym clothes—or maybe pajamas. Maybe like you and I felt, C, in the Galleria, only more so. I slunk my way down the sidewalk, feeling all the reproving eyes on me, half expecting to be reprimanded for dressing out of code. I know they were looking at the faded polish on my toenails. But why don’t I ever think of that while I’m at home?

This is ridiculous, I finally told myself. I am an adult, and I ought to be able to wear whatever I want to wear to walk on the street going to the park. This is a street, not a by-invitation-only fashion show. I refuse to be self-conscious. I am an American, and I will dress like it if I want to!

But later I bought a set of bangle bracelets to have another accessory.

If you want to see for yourself:

thesartorialist.blogspot.com has several pictures from the streets of Italy. These people aren’t the exception, they’re the Rule.

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So far

Change, and constancy
Still nostalgia of the soul.
So we live panting for the next
Memory of before.

Every always time
Heart slips into reverse
With forward thrust.

Fall dripped through my fingers,
Winter bared my flaws.
Spring sang sharp and
Summer stole upon me blind.

Apart from you, the charm
Is lacking in the face
Of change; chameleon-child
Wants faith for company.

Slowing future fades to memory--
Your presence perfect calm of constancy times change.